Some Things I've Learned...

This morning, after ringing in the new year for the 40th time, I was awakened early with the thoughts of how many things I've learned over the years. Here are 40 reflections to start off the year:

• The best thing I can be for my children is a good husband to their mother.

• Trust is of the utmost importance in both personal and professional relationships.

• Being a good father, husband, brother and businessman do not have to be mutually exclusive.

• Diligence is more than just a nice concept, it's hard work.

• Life is full of a bunch of props used to mold, test and check our hearts.

• Real unity only comes through self sacrifice.

• Expecting another to fix my problems only leads to disappointment and frustration.

• If all you can do is what you're doing, then you're doing enough.

• Besides Jesus, my family is my most valuable asset.

• Learning to forgive is as important as learning to love.

• Living with integrity means eating humble pie once in a while.

• Some battles can only be fought through fasting and prayer.

• My wife is my "helpmeet." Therefore, I'm the one actually responsible for making sure everything gets done, not her.

• My children are simply a reflection of me. The good, as well as the bad in me.

• When I become frustrated with others, it is most productive to first look within myself to see how I am frustrating to others and to God himself.

• Honoring and being honorable are decisions that must be made before a situation demands it.

• The more I have to accomplish, the more important the time I need to spend with the Lord each morning becomes.

• The church is an invaluable asset that I do not deserve.

• It is a divine blessing to love what you do and do what you love.

• When God directs us to speak or do, we must obey, because the aftertaste of willful disobedience is not pleasant and lasts a long time.

• Choosing to walk with Jesus, means I will have enemies whom I need to love.

• Persecution often begins with those who are close to you.

• Humor is a priceless asset that lightens one's load.

• Humor is best used toward one's self.

• Close relationships are worth the hurt one risks.

• Through assumption comes nothing but strife.

• Fellowship always begins between an individual and God.

• Communication is an essential skill needed to thrive in relationships.

• Learning to listen is more valuable than learning to talk.

• Teaching is more valuable when delivered in a one on one relationship, rather than as an edict from on high.

• The innocence of children is the best source of humor.

• When you have an abundance of children, you have all the entertainment one needs.

• Walking in the Light, means having nothing to hide.

• We must be careful to let God be God, not government.

• Assessing where a person spends their time and money exposes their values.

• Growing older is a valuable asset if one is striving for wisdom.

• One's worldview matters.

• The body is an intricately designed mechanism that functions as one, and hurts when it doesn't function as it's been designed.

• Having a good name is more valuable than abundant riches.

• I still have a lot to learn.